IS THAT A CULT NEXT DOOR ? It's very possible ! There are all kinds, and all sizes.
First of all, let's examine the term 'cult.'
This term has been used via the media today as ALWAYS being religious in nature, and always evil. Technically, the term 'cult' really means any two or more people that agree on any set belief - religious or not.
Usually it refers to a group, small or large, with like beliefs. So in reality, all church denominations are also cults.
But today, 'cult' has been used in reference to extremists that separate themselves from main stream society in some way, and do evil things, or at least things that the government does not approve of, in some cases, such as at Waco or Ruby Ridge.
But for the main purpose, it is today used as a term
to mean a group that recruits others into their group with their own beliefs and
ways of doing things, and usually the things they do are evil.
Skin heads and Neo Nazi groups are also considered 'cults.'So using 'cult' as we have been now using it in this society today, we will explore what is really happening in our 1990's world.
You often hear about satanic cults and animal sacrifices, etc. on the nightly news, but there are also cults and cult-like people that are not often brought out into the open, that are not that obvious, and they could be as close as next door !
FAMILY CULTS exist in record numbers today -- they are everywhere;
and they're just as deadly and devastating as any full blown satanic cult is, to their victims !FAMILY CULTS may or may not be of a religious nature; usually they are not. So what is a "family cult" and what is their purpose or aim ?
Simple - money, and control over others.
They usually target young men. These "families" usually have daughters, and the daughters are the bait to lure the young men into their family, usually getting them to marry them. Sex is used extensively to capture these young unsuspecting men. They cause them to be obsessed with sex so they don't notice all the other things that are happening to them, namely, their time and their minds have been completely taken over !
The young man is "guarded" 24 hours a day, has no 'alone time,' and is
kept COMPLETELY OCCUPIED by activities concerning
only the "new family" he has been recruited into. HE will have no contact or good feelings for his own blood family, and if he had any friends before being 'taken over,' he'll not have them now !
He is now another paycheck (and slave) for his 'new family' - and they WILL CONTROL every cent he makes !
He will feel so "obligated" to this 'new family,' he will 'gladly' let them handle everything.
Why 'obligated?'
Well, this new 'family' will have created in his mind that they saved
him from his 'miserable and abused' life that he had before he met them.
HE WILL BELIEVE THIS too- for awhile anyway. They use
guilt and fear very heavily. If , at any time, the young man snaps out of the brainwashing 'trance' back to reality, they WILL SENSE this and force the brainwashing to go even deeper ! Sometimes this will even cause an emotional and\or nervous breakdown, but they will not let him go (if, indeed, they EVER let him go) until they have drained everything out of him that they can. He has been emotionally and mentally raped !
You will notice dark circles around his eyes, and a pasty complexion
because one of the first things ALL cults do, is to deprive the person of sleep and good nutrition, while they run him into exhaustion with
their continuous activities.
They never give his mind a rest, or time to 'think' about anything except THEM !! Once they are 'finished' with him, they
will possibly arrange an 'accident' or begin to slowly poison him,
and when he dies, they will collect a huge life insurance policy on him.
Sounds like fiction ?
Think again !!
It's happening more and more, and is not as uncommon as you may think !
All the while , they'll "look" like a nice, 'normal family' living next door.
These ARE evil people !! They destroy lives and live off the 'blood' of their victims. They are DECEIVERS !
They usually get the young man to marry into the family, since this makes it "legal" and protects them from any legal litigation from the victim's real blood
family.
The "marriage" makes the young man the "property" of the cult family. This legal piece of paper cuts out the victim's real family - it renders them helpless, legally.
Terri Schindler (Schiavo) is a good example of a girl victim of this type of family-cult person and family ! And we all know what happened to her and how helpless her family was in saving her ! THAT shows you how powerful that little piece of 'marriage paper' is ! (2005)
Don't think that the young man can just up and leave - why he's not even allowed to go to the bathroom alone !! Literally ! So don't think he'll be able to escape, even if he dared to think to do such a thing !
He's usually driven by a cult family member, to work, and some family member or friend usually works at the same place,
and he'll be picked up after work. He will NEVER BE ALLOWED TO BE ALONE !
He'll have to account for every minute of time, and heaven help him if he's unable to account for a minute or two !!How does all this happen ? What does one look for ?
First of all, you must remember that the victim does NOT REALIZE
what is happening to him or her.
He or she will think they're 'helping out' and being a sympathetic ear, in the beginning to this cult family.1. The victim's time is COMPLETELY filled with the cult family's manipulations. This is aimed to cause the victim to feel wanted, needed, and cared about. He will also feel FEAR of leaving this new family ! The cult family will pretend they are lost without the victim's 'help'; whether it's having the victim drive them to 'needed' places, or helping them find a 'solution' to some fictitious problem. It also causes
the victim to have no time to think about his own life or family. They especailly go after those young men who have cars, that THEY quickly take over !
The goal here is to make the victim feel drawn to the cult family and give him the feeling of being their 'knight in shining armor to the rescue.'
They actually will make a slave out of him. It is to make the victim feel
important and needed. This is the first 'lure.'
He will be so caught up in the praise they give him and the feeling of
being so "important," that he will never realize that the cult family has COMPLETELY TAKEN OVER HIS TIME, MIND, AND LIFE.
He now already feels like he is part of the cult family, and is distanced from his own blood family, and his friends, but does not yet realize this has happened.
He may still visit or call his own blood family (in the beginning), but it will cause him to feel disloyal to
his new (cult) family - so if there is a communication of some kind 'allowed' with his blood family, his attitude will be distant and cold towards them. He will be not allowed to speak freely on the phone to his blood family - they will be right there listening, and to tell him every word to say !! He will not be able to assess the confusion he is feeling.
HE is feeling guilt for speaking to his own blood family ! He is already 'hooked'
and feeling obligated, to loyalty to his new cult family, but is consciously unaware of this.
The cult family makes him feel that his former life was not good enough for him -- that ONLY THEY can provide him with a better, and
'higher'life style, when, in reality, his new life style may be worse than he's ever known before.This can take very little time to do -- anywhere from one day to
10 days, but it usually never takes longer than 10 days.
Usually they "own" him within 3 days.
That's how fast they work, and how good they are at what they do !!2. The new family will cause the victim to mistrust his own blood family members. He will now view his own blood family as "the enemy" in his life, and will no longer desire any contact with them. By this time, his real blood family will notice the change in him, and try to 'wake him up' out of this brainwashed condition by telling him of the changes they see in him --
but he will defend his 'new' family and his new life. He may be out and out hostile about it to his blood family!! He now is at the point
that he believes his new attitude is by his own choice --
he has no idea that he's been brainwashed, or that he has even
changed !!3. The new family will "put their mark" on him -- usually, as with most cults, they will cut his hair. This is a sign to the world (and his
blood family) that he is their property - hands off !
If he has a real short hair cut already, they may have him grow it long, but it is usually the other way around. But the hair has a special internal and Spiritual meaning, that is why the cults go after the hair -- it shows they have completely 'conquered' him; MARKED HIM !In the Bible, the hair on your head has very special significance to God.
The Bible calls it "your Crown and Glory."
Samson's strength source was in his hair. The Nazirites were never permitted by God's order, to ever cut their hair.
Long hair on men was Biblically correct.
A shaved head meant shame and mourning.
Your hair on your head has a vital spiritual meaning and connection to God.
This is why all cults go after the hair, to change it, to use it, as a mark of
"ownership," because it's our 'Crown and Glory' to God; our special connection to HIM.
The cult must break this tie, in order to 'own' you for themselves, and have your TOTAL LOYALTY. At this point, if the victim had strict
morals for himself before all this began, he no longer has any.
He is now "owned" by THEM.4. The victim's habits and way of doing things will be changed to conform to the way the new family does things. He will not realize this is happening. It will be 'natural' to him to follow whatever ways they have. (The former ways of his own blood family will now seem strange to him, and even wrong.)
The victim will now be completely a 'family member' but still 'guarded' 24 hours a day. He will be so use to having a 'tag along' hanging on him by this time, that he will feel 'lost' without them ! He has now basically lost his own identity, unknown to him. He has literally been mentally and emotionally and spiritually raped !5. He will no longer be able to make decisions for himself, and totally rely on the new family members to tell him what to do from one minute to the next.
(He will believe that he is making his own decisions for himself, and never realize that his brain has nearly become the functioning of a vegetable).6. They will cause him to be financially and emotionally indebted to them, even though in reality, they have robbed him of all his earnings and kept him flat broke, and have emotionally stripped him of himself - his true personality.
He will not realize this has happened, of course.
He will no longer be financially able to get out of this family cult now, even if he wanted to. They will cause debts in his name, usually through a marriage, and they will get all the benefits from these debts they have trapped him into.
They will make him believe that all these
debts were of his own making and choice.
Hence, more guilt will be added to his already over burdened
guilt complex that they have created in him.
They begin to cause him to feel that he is not worthy to be in
such a 'wise' family; he must now work hard to prove himself to them, of his worthiness.7. They may keep him forever, but they may also use him to gain more money via life insurance. Since marriage makes it legal for them to do whatever they choose to him, the real blood family will never be able to have the illness or death investigated.
In fact, the real family will probably never know if a death occurs, since all ties and communications will be cut off.
Many cremations are the result of these actions and no one is the wiser.
By the way - cremation is against God's way. We are not to ever DELIBERATELY defile the body.
To burn it to ashes, is like making it so the person never existed; Which is the ONLY reason to burn the body to ashes, as was done to the EVIL people, like King Saul, in the Bible. EVIL was the only bodies burned to ashes (cremation).
God, at the time HE calls us up to Him, will change our present bodies -- 'glorify' them, and we need to have a body for this to happen.If the victim has a minimal job, once they get him all cashed out and financially charged up - - - he is worth more to them dead, than alive. At his death, most debts would be cleared, since everything will be in his name for these.
The family will make sure all these things are set up the right way to begin with, so THEY are NOT responsible for the debts, yet are named on all the assets !!
Also, the life insurance policy will, of course, have THEM (usually the wife they get him to marry) as beneficiary. Nice set up !
And this is happening more often than you think !If he ever escapes -- they WILL always get him back, one way or another. They have his mind so under their control, that they can even
get him to come to them, just using mind control alone !
I've seen this happen several times myself, with my own eyes !
Also, they can easily control the person via a phone call; just the
sound of their voice will be all it takes to get the victim to
come running back !Once a person has been under this kind of mind control, even if they are "de-programmed" later, they will never be the same person
they were before all this happened to them.
He has been changed FOREVER , even if HE doesn't like it, or
doesn't realize it. They have gone into his mind and ALTERED IT !These family cults have a way of programming into these victims, a 'trigger' that will go off at a later date, just in case they do get away from the cult by some miracle. This usually will cause them to turn on their own blood family, and leave them, somewhere along the line. The victim won't even know why he is having these feelings and reactions; that's how good the cults are at what they do to the mind !
The victim's true personality will NEVER fully return or be restored. They will never "feel at home" anywhere again, and will move often.
This restlessness is disturbing to them and they won't
understand it themselves.
It is due to the void that is there inside them, the place that was occupied by the cult family.
Since the victim was never given any time to himself alone
and the cult had him CONTINUALLY BUSY, he is not use to having any peaceful alone time, which is not only normal to have,
but very necessary for a balanced being.
It is NOT NORMAL for a person to be kept so on the
go all the time, like the cult family caused to happen and made seem normal. So this sudden loss of activity, after the victim is either rescued or escapes, leaves a void in his life and he doesn't know how to fill it. What he does not realize is,
he should NOT TRY TO FILL IT, but instead teach himself to have some peaceful and quiet time to himself. The ONLY thing that CAN FILL THAT EMPTY PLACE IN HIM IS GOD. AND I AM VERY SERIOUS ABOUT THAT. He will have to teach himself this, since the cult made him feel that this was wrong and unnatural. The cult twisted so much of his own personality and morals around, that he will take years to get himself
re-adapted to a NORMAL life style again. He will still carry the guilt and fear they put into him, and this keeps him stirred up all the time inside.
The victim does not know why he feels this restlessness, he just gets the 'urge' for change and a new activity. His mind is never fully at peace, as it was before the cult did their dirty work on him and his personality and mind. If he does not get this under control, it could drive him mad.
This is the programming IN him, and no matter how you try to restore the full original, real personality that he had before, it will never be the same again,
nor will the bond to his real blood family. This is ruined forever, sorry to say.
The real family will never feel like they can trust him completely again, no matter how badly they want to. This restlessness he will display,
causes the uneasiness and friction that the cult 'planned' for it to; they made it so he would never be able to fit back into his old life ever again. They also programmed in him, to never be able to get close to his own family again, or feel
at home with them. This is what his real family is sensing, why they feel they
can never fully trust him again. It doesn't make the victim feel very good about it either, for he truly wants to fit back in and be close to his real family; he just
can't seem to DO it. It's the programming in him, not him himself.
It's very sad. He began as a good person who was only trying to help someone and ended up having his life stolen from him forever.So it is imperative to be careful who you allow as your friends, and who you
attach yourself to, or who you date. I've seen this happen many times as the result of just one date with the wrong person !
This is something SO DEVASTATING TO THE WHOLE BLOOD
FAMILY, that it's something to really be aware of !
It is probably the MOST DESTRUCTIVE INJURY ANY FAMILY CAN HAVE HAPPEN TO THEM !These cult families can come on like the sweetest people in the world, in order
to get to you. But BEWARE of people, or girlfriends (or boyfriends) that carry a 'tale of woe.'
This is the first SIGN that they are trying to drag (recruit) you into their life and world ! Don't feel sorry for people - this is how they get to you ! Just reply to it - God gives problems to people for THEM to deal with and handle, and grow through, and you are not to 'take on' others problems. God gave them to them for a reason and for THEM to handle and learn and grow through, not you; or he would have given the problem to you. But he did not; he gave the problem to THEM ! Do not interfere. THat is how you answer anyone who tries to get you involved in their problems and life !Let people take care of their own problems !
Problems are gifts from God to help us grow and become strong.
Never take on someone else's problems or situations ! It is Satan's trap ! Beware !
God gave those problems to them for a reason - so don't interfere !Cult families make up fake problems as a 'set up' to get to you.
DON'T FALL FOR IT !!Stick to your own life's path == don't take this deadly detour; you may never get back, and if you are one of the few who do, you will still be a changed, altered person FOREVER !
After all, they went into your mind and altered it.
This damage will remain in you, so make very sure that you NEVER
allow it to happen in the first place !Listen, and stay close, to your own blood family. When they tell you that you are changing, listen to them ! Don't rebel !
Your own family has a lifetime invested in you, they will not do or say anything that would hurt you or steer you wrong; so don't be so easily lured by outsiders, strangers, and put more trust into your own blood family, who have loved you
and protected you for your whole life.Don't be so easily lured into helping people with their personal problems.
Read God's Word and get a close bond to Jesus Christ ! Jesus is the ONLY hope of freedom from this bondage the victim has been in.
There's safety in the old sayings - "Mind your own business" and
"Keep your nose in your own back yard!"These old sayings could save your life !